The YouTube Couple Torn Apart by an "Obsessive" Fan: Ryan Trahan and Haley Pham


Ryan Trahan and Haley Pham are called out in a video essay, and the response gets very messy.
In early September, a GRblock channel called SPV Laboratories posted a commentary video titled "ryan trahan and haley pham need to press pause."
Before it was made private a few weeks later, the video had nearly half a million views.
The video essay was just over two hours long and contained many criticisms about Ryan's and Haley's decisions and how they presented their actions to their young audience. And then it got really messy.


  • Ave Amarande
    Ave AmarandeΠριν 4 ώρες

    Ryan I agree with you.

  • Ave Amarande
    Ave AmarandeΠριν 5 ώρες

    You know everyone gets criticism especially when you're a social media influencer tbh its odd that he chose them but people commentate on what they're interested in. His criticisms were harsh but fair, they were in-depth and clearly researched

  • Rory Purvis
    Rory PurvisΠριν 13 ώρες

    idk... i think that this situation has been blown waaaaay out of proportion. SPV didn't have to make the video. he just didnt! however, he did bring some valid points to the table.

  • Chelsea Wiltzee
    Chelsea WiltzeeΠριν 2 ημέρες

    this whole thing is dum lol

  • April Spark
    April SparkΠριν 2 ημέρες

    Am I the only one who thinks that opening a vial that says marry me that you gave me a long time ago is mega romantic? I would cry

  • Demi Upton
    Demi UptonΠριν 2 ημέρες

    If you watch this entire video and put all the facts together it does seem like this young couple did this differently, grew together, made mistakes and took acountability for them which is completely normal. They should be able to live how they want too. What isnt normal is this older man gathering information and spending hours on a documentary about a couple that isnt even that problematic. Ryan and Hayley towards the end are obviously maturing so well and treated the situation responsibly. Idc the context, it is weird for a grown man to make hours of content dedicated to highlighting the mistakes of a young couple.

  • Blass
    BlassΠριν 3 ημέρες

    The stock clips are SO zzzzz, STOP.

  • Blass
    BlassΠριν 3 ημέρες

    Nurses aren't doctors and they cannot diagnose anything but they can TREAT things.

  • Kayla Varela
    Kayla VarelaΠριν 4 ημέρες

    lol imagine it’s a 12 yr old boy that just has killer editing skills 😂😂

  • mApLe
    mApLeΠριν 7 ημέρες

    When SPV says he has been following Ryan and Haley I don't think he is talking about in the Internet, but the real life...

  • mApLe
    mApLeΠριν 7 ημέρες

    this spv guy makes good points but is super creepy

  • Alexandra
    AlexandraΠριν 8 ημέρες

    I’m 17 and I wanna graduate. I don’t plan to go to college for a while because I don’t ever plan on having kids either.

  • ricky gonzalez
    ricky gonzalezΠριν 14 ημέρες

    personally I don’t watch them but I think that SPV’s words really just didn’t make sense. They are doing there own thing and they don’t have to match other people’s expectations. I also think it’s so weird that he was mainly going to Hayley, she isn’t my favorite person but I think it’s wrong of him to do that.

  • Angela Johnson
    Angela JohnsonΠριν 14 ημέρες

    i think he went too far. yes they made huge mistakes but dont we all? Maybe we should get in his business and see how he likes it

  • 7466ypb
    7466ypbΠριν 16 ημέρες

    Whatever you want to say or think about the couple.. cool.... BUT this SPV person sounds creepy scary tbh

  • Geri Ramirez
    Geri RamirezΠριν 16 ημέρες

    Bro just let them live why does he care so much? they’re not hurting anybody, whether they should or shouldn’t buy a house is their business, whether they want to get marry young or not is their business, and and if they want to save themselves for marriage is also their business I don’t understand why this grown man really thinks that making a two hour documentary about some couple he saw online is not the main concern here. Also as an immigrant I don’t know what type of culture this guy has but I intend to a soon as I’m making enough money tell my parents to stop working and I’ll take care of them.

  • Geri Ramirez
    Geri RamirezΠριν 16 ημέρες

    Bro just let them live why does he care so much? they’re not hurting anybody, whether they should or shouldn’t buy a house is their business, whether they want to get marry young or not is their business, and and if they want to save themselves for marriage is also their business I don’t understand why this grown man really thinks that making a two hour documentary about some kids that he saw online is not the main concern here.

  • Jynxedlove
    JynxedloveΠριν 16 ημέρες

    I think one year IS a long time for that age. A lot of brain development occurs.

  • Chedder Cheese
    Chedder CheeseΠριν 17 ημέρες

    I don't think when Haley and Ryan get married is any of our business, considering it not our relationship and we don't have a say in how comfortable they feel.

  • Viviana Muniz
    Viviana MunizΠριν 17 ημέρες

    What is even a MEntAl SteP bAcK??

  • Viviana Muniz
    Viviana MunizΠριν 17 ημέρες

    I got married young. We were both 21 and have been married for more than 5 years.

  • Ms Potato
    Ms PotatoΠριν 17 ημέρες

    are haley and ryan supposed to teach kids about buying a house in their videos? no, they just uploaded them looking for one, that doesnt HAVE to come with an indept and how to buy a house and tell kids about it tho

  • shelsley cameron
    shelsley cameronΠριν 17 ημέρες

    I think the way people are judging them like they're ADULTS when they're not is UNFAIR. Every kid thinks they're mature than they actually are. Give them a break.

  • Rican _Mana
    Rican _ManaΠριν 18 ημέρες

    Omg, he needs to calm, there videos are for entertainment purposes, and he’s talking bout, “what will they learn from this” or “look what your teaching them”

  • Sonia Salazar
    Sonia SalazarΠριν 18 ημέρες

    this whole situation is weird. this grown man seems obsessed with them. he’s criticizing them for things i’ve seen a ton of other young couples do. he only knows them at an artificial level and has no idea what their relationship is like offline. there’s so many other people who actually deserve to have a two hour video made on them.

  • Zehra ._
    Zehra ._Πριν 18 ημέρες

    "But internet human not as much", oh yeah because of these "internet humans" you are living in this house.. but umm ok.

  • SADE.
    SADE.Πριν 19 ημέρες

    "I can't believe that someone thinks I'm marrying someone because we bought a house together." I don't know why but that had me rolling ..

  • Ezra Freedude
    Ezra FreedudeΠριν 19 ημέρες

    guy doxxed himself, that entire argument is invalid

  • Genuine Delusions
    Genuine DelusionsΠριν 21 ημέρα

    I couldn't imagine being 27, and spending countless hours studying some kids as if they don't have other adults to advise them...Doesn't he have his own life/marriage to focus on?

  • shyamolie parekh
    shyamolie parekhΠριν 22 ημέρες

    seriously, people were forced to be married at 14, it is called child marriage and its iLlEgAl

  • Mma
    MmaΠριν 22 ημέρες

    I genuinely used to like Haley's videos and as much as it is weird to see her acting like a grown-up and stuff, I'm not gonna make a 2-hour video criticizing her bc it's her life. I understand that she has a young and impressionable audience but it's not her job to parent them. For the most part, I just think she can be a bit careless and ignorant. I don't condone her advice but really should anyone be taking that kinda advice seriously? But like I don't understand people who are sitting around and waiting for her marriage to fail like that's so unfair. This SPV person makes valid points but he wanted to see them fail from the start

  • Db3
    Db3Πριν 23 ημέρες

    I have no respect for someone who hides behind the camera, concealing his identity seems like a cowardly move

  • It's Me Nordia!
    It's Me Nordia!Πριν 23 ημέρες

    Who is spv to be judging people's life?? I don't know none of these people but who th did he think he is... 🙄🙄🙄

  • Cats_And_Crows
    Cats_And_CrowsΠριν 23 ημέρες

    Am i the only one that immediately thought yerrow was kinda sus?

  • kerry
    kerryΠριν 24 ημέρες

    i agree with the whole birth control thing synthetic hormones are horrible for you..

  • A S
    A SΠριν 24 ημέρες

    being angry at God... 😳

  • :D
    :DΠριν 24 ημέρες

    why would a nurse take their time to get to know you??? who do u think u are????

  • Alyssa Smullin
    Alyssa SmullinΠριν 24 ημέρες

    Okay but deciding a certain type of birth control isn’t for you after one week isn’t doing research. It took my body almost 3 months to get used to my birth control (I take the pill and have been for the past 4 years) it takes your body time to get used to the hormones in birth control.

  • Ashton Scripts
    Ashton ScriptsΠριν 25 ημέρες

    dream stans be like

  • Erin Iriks
    Erin IriksΠριν 25 ημέρες

    "This is kind of offensive--" But still says something offensive anyway. She seems out of touch.

  • Ashley Humbyrd
    Ashley HumbyrdΠριν 25 ημέρες

    Ryan’s response to this insanity really illustrates just how mature he is. He’s handling this better than I would and I’m in my 30s. I don’t think getting married young is a great choice, but honestly, it’s not my life. I married the man I was with from the age of 21 on. We waited until we were 28, but we had been together for ages, soot wouldn’t have made a difference in our situation

  • sky realm
    sky realmΠριν 25 ημέρες

    Ryan seems like a person who does things for a reason like him complementing the guy at the beginning of his story and later using that like I believe that information was unnecessary and it was just used to prove his innocence oh and add a fundraiser on a video calling someone out like that seems like a strategic bias plan to me but he should include some of the background to his vids that includes the professionals cause more content

  • sky realm
    sky realmΠριν 25 ημέρες

    Haley didn’t do much wrong really she just says a little too much and I mean Greece has it’s flaws but come to America and break a finger and then have to pay thousands of dollars to get help yeah your gonna have a bias opinion about it and she tries to avoid stuff which is typical gen z behavior

  • Dystany Sam
    Dystany SamΠριν 26 ημέρες

    Lol never heard anything about them until now

  • Stelliferous Oofer
    Stelliferous OoferΠριν 26 ημέρες

    SPV: Creepy Documentary: Mostly Valid

  • TheDominoCrownGuy
    TheDominoCrownGuyΠριν 27 ημέρες

    i went to greece and its not bad

  • Nandita Menon
    Nandita MenonΠριν 27 ημέρες

    I get that spv made the video showing flaws but man he as a random person had 0 rights to even suggest how they should live their life and what they can or cannot show. Also the pictures just immediately allowed the couple to discredit everything he said in the video. I guess SPV should have looked up his own history before digging up theirs 😂

  • Jülide Ece
    Jülide EceΠριν 28 ημέρες


  • Lindsey Kimball
    Lindsey KimballΠριν 28 ημέρες

    Eeeeehhhhhh.........I’m siding with Ryan. Maybe not Hayley, but eh. I kind of don’t care, I have my own life to worry about, ya know? Let these folks be.

  • the shag master
    the shag masterΠριν 29 ημέρες

    The right side is a blend of both here

  • Emma
    EmmaΠριν 29 ημέρες

    What I don't understand is why so many people are STILL criticizing haley so severely for those past ignorant remarks. She made an apology video that felt genuine as she held herself accountable to all of the things she said. Am I the only one who thinks she deserves forgiveness? Or at least an end to the consistent bashing. There are definitely more problematic people on the internet to go after.

  • najisalocal
    najisalocalΠριν 29 ημέρες

    i like ryan but haley is very sus, I cant even LOL.. like I used to really like her in 2019... but.... shes just so.. i dunno

  • Saivi Paradkar
    Saivi ParadkarΠριν μήνα

    Why don't haley's apologies ever sound genuine? Her actions are so disrespectful yet she treats her mistakes as small oopsies. Its just really abnoxious.

  • Disco Potato
    Disco PotatoΠριν μήνα

    It's sad that people make a living off of criticizing other peoples lives.... But, I suppose that's what happens when those "other people (being criticized)" put their lives online...I hope this is just a trend and people learn how detrimental this is for everyone involved.

  • weeb simp
    weeb simpΠριν μήνα

    i have a friend who lived in greece and other than the high class areas, they say the areas are pretty horrific

  • adriana salonen
    adriana salonenΠριν μήνα

    idk i think people are over reacting with this whole situation, the only thing i think was really wrong was her dissing on Greece.

  • Elora S.
    Elora S.Πριν μήνα

    im honestly just so tired of "influencers"

  • big trucks
    big trucksΠριν μήνα

    Easier to make mortgage payments then paying rent

  • nkaterina
    nkaterinaΠριν μήνα

    who are these people

  • Southern Fried MamaBear
    Southern Fried MamaBearΠριν μήνα

    The pull out method is actually pretty reliable tho...

  • Aɴᴅʏ B. Gᴏᴏᴅᴇ
    Aɴᴅʏ B. GᴏᴏᴅᴇΠριν μήνα

    31:23 "SPV is a creepy elderly 27 year old!"

  • Aɴᴅʏ B. Gᴏᴏᴅᴇ
    Aɴᴅʏ B. GᴏᴏᴅᴇΠριν μήνα

    I didn't realize there were people on the internet that never heard the term ARG (Alternative Reality Game)!

  • j holmes
    j holmesΠριν μήνα

    Ok the whole thing is irritating to me lol and I don’t even know the couple. SPV had some valid criticisms but the rest of it was just very vicious towards Hayley. What the whole thing comes off as to me is a fan of Ryan’s who hates Hayley simply because she dropped out of high school and said some problematic things (which she has owned up to). It sounds like a lot people just don’t like Hayley and think of her as less then because of her dropping out of high school(Not a soul mentioned him dropping out of college). I think that they handled everything well and it sounds like they are just documenting their journey together as a couple. A couple who are growing from their mistakes and are continuing to grow. I see a lot people keep saying ‘they are adults.’, ‘they can’t say ‘treat them like adults’ and ‘treat them like teenagers who make mistakes.’’ Let’s not act like we don’t get what they are saying and that we don’t get it. We all make mistakes and grow from them no matter how old or young we are. We can all grow no matter when our last mistake was. Yes SPV was creepy and you cannot separate that from his criticism video the whole alternate universe game is very weird and no one can deny that he took pics from when the other Ryan was younger(and they were pics of him shirtless) and put him in various relationships with other people and SPV was an adult. The whole doxxing thing wasn’t doxxing because he already had his information own(that he put out there himself) on public display. The thing about a wife the kid on the way to me personally isn’t doxxing but I understand that some people wouldn’t want info like that out there.

  • Meghan Araujo
    Meghan AraujoΠριν μήνα

    lol Ryan was talking about how this guy was like "I appreciate it" and laughed it off meanwhile haley is just giving false information and giggling?

  • bea likes lasagna
    bea likes lasagnaΠριν μήνα

    My mom is an ER nurse. She doesnt get to know her patients because theres ALWAYS work to do, especially with the pandemic. Haley is obviously entitled and thinks she deserves higher treatment than others.

  • Drew Made New
    Drew Made NewΠριν μήνα

    I have two questions. Why was this in my recommendation? And why tf did I watch the whole thing? 🤦‍♂️

  • Queen Anastazia
    Queen AnastaziaΠριν μήνα

    I don't know why they apologized , it's literally their life

  • carou s
    carou sΠριν μήνα

    honestly, while some of their haters' (and SPV's) points about this couple are valid, things that people should really leave their noses out of would be their decisions to get married young and buy a house at their age. that's really THEIR OWN BUSINESS AND THEIR OWN CHOICE and they should not feel the need to explain themselves or apologise. disclaimer: i am not one of their fans, neither one of their haters. i'm just someone who happened to come across this video and realised how much they (especially ryan) had to justify their actions regarding their young marriage and purchase of a house

  • Luana Santos
    Luana SantosΠριν μήνα


  • Bloo Berry
    Bloo BerryΠριν μήνα

    I don't even know these people and I still watched

  • Nick A S
    Nick A SΠριν μήνα

    SPV sounds so jealous though 😂 ...

  • Elly3121
    Elly3121Πριν μήνα

    She says SPV---I hear STD

  • Mid Night
    Mid NightΠριν μήνα

    22:05 Need I say more-

    SHARK YTΠριν μήνα

    Why are still people thinking that getting married on 18 is wrong and bad brooo this is their fking choice

  • Kendall cox
    Kendall coxΠριν μήνα

    Ok idk why everyone is so concerned with them getting married young i think they are gonna be fine many people (my parents for just one example) get married at a young age but as for the rest of the stuff i think they need to do a lot of self reflection

  • Rick Musick
    Rick MusickΠριν μήνα

    What's wrong with this guy? Why is he worried about what they do or how they do things it's their life good or bad so who does he think he is? I mean so what?

  • Steven
    StevenΠριν μήνα

    I love that someone wrote their response videos for them. You can see him looking off camera to read the script he was provided.

  • Annalisa Zucchi

    Annalisa Zucchi

    Πριν μήνα

    He might have written it himself

  • Steven
    StevenΠριν μήνα

    I honestly don't get why these people are famous. They do not deserve any of the millions of dollars they have.

  • Midnight
    MidnightΠριν μήνα

    Wrong, Haley. The worst move of all is hating and blaming your Creator for everything that happen in your life to which you made your choices and He has nothing to do with it at all.

  • Spiffy Pete
    Spiffy PeteΠριν μήνα

    Stealing content and $ from SPV

  • Lunelle_Carnagee
    Lunelle_CarnageeΠριν μήνα

    Spill saying "people who can get pregnant/people with uteruses" instead of using feminizing terms gives me (trans masc) gender euphoria-

  • Olivia Pierce
    Olivia PierceΠριν μήνα

    Haley DOES seem pretty spoiled, unlikable and detached from reality. (Donating money is great, but that doesn’t mean you’re active in the community either) THIS WAS A BIG WASTE OF TIME.

  • rat
    ratΠριν μήνα

    i really liked the video spv made. idk if that makes me sound weird but it watched and i really liked it. he never talked about things they hadn't already shared online so i dont think that what he did was weird. he definitely spent a lot of time editing that video so props to him.

  • Shannanigans
    ShannanigansΠριν μήνα

    A commission to get a CAT scan???????

  • Erin Johnston
    Erin JohnstonΠριν μήνα

    Why does this video say a couple was torn apart????

  • Greek G
    Greek GΠριν μήνα

    Bruh Greece and the people there are amazing

  • Video Nomad
    Video NomadΠριν μήνα

    was here

  • Olgaa__
    Olgaa__Πριν μήνα

    Has anyone been worried about Haley like as of right now? I feel like she’s not happy & is ignoring us as her audience. I was subscribed to her but she just changed out of nowhere again and want to see her happy & doing actually what she wants

  • 216 Cor
    216 CorΠριν μήνα

    I can’t believe I just watched a 45 minute long video about people Idek🤣 never watched a video about them. Anyways Haley is a little slow😭

  • 216 Cor

    216 Cor

    Πριν μήνα

    Mb 50 minutes😐

  • zaliapoo dessine draws
    zaliapoo dessine drawsΠριν μήνα

    Ryan seems like a wholesome dude caught up in this mess because of haley honestly.

  • zaliapoo dessine draws
    zaliapoo dessine drawsΠριν μήνα

    The spv guy seems like a computer... Analyzing every detail of this couples life.

  • Kryptosimponite Legend
    Kryptosimponite LegendΠριν μήνα

    Idk why these channels bother to put a disclaimer on don't go harass the people in the video.... We saw what happened when twitch banned the word SIMP. It went up 97%. So basically you're just telling everyone to go and harass.

  • Cara Somebody
    Cara SomebodyΠριν μήνα

    Looks to me like some young people have a stocker who wants to use them for attention and demonize them while staying anonymous. You made a two hour video about them but then whine about your name being said while the guys complimenting you? they handled this in a pretty mature fashion given their age and the fact that this guys whole thing is about how their immature mistakes are a bad influence on young people is really weird. These young people (based off this video only) seem to be handling adult responsibilities and discussing adult topics the best that they can. Growing and figuring out life. Making mistakes. Making money. I get the whole public figure argument but this is going above and beyond coming for these “kids” and for what? Jealous?

  • Heidy Coleman
    Heidy ColemanΠριν μήνα

    Dude just let them live oh my god

  • Quesita Eliz
    Quesita ElizΠριν μήνα

    Ryan is super smart. He pulled out his deck. Good for him.

  • redhelium
    redheliumΠριν μήνα

    you guys are tweaking. you are all acting as if your obligated to make them your mentors

  • Lulu Cmachi
    Lulu CmachiΠριν μήνα

    She's literally telling young people that having a kid at 14/17 is normal 💀💀

  • Yee haw I guess

    Yee haw I guess

    Πριν 23 ημέρες

    She’s not. She’s saying it was normal at the time 100+ years ago with the shorter lifespan.

  • Jacky Bandicoot
    Jacky BandicootΠριν μήνα

    can we talk about how these so called "kids" handled the situation better and more mature than any other youtuber i've ever seen??

  • barbietingz_
    barbietingz_Πριν μήνα

    ryan is so much mature than hayley tbh. its just something abt her I don't like

  • msslateagain2009
    msslateagain2009Πριν μήνα

    ...nurses aren’t doctors...that’s why they have different names...girllll should have stayed in school